It has set in in our house and while some would find the shrieking annoying I LOVE it.
I know weird right but when you are an adoptive parent it is kind of a special moment when you baby has bonded with you and actually misses you if you leave the room. It warms my heart.
Sure when we are at a brunch buffet and I leave and Dave stays with Kiya (or vice versa) and she starts screaming and others are staring it can be a tad much. But I wouldn't change it for the world. Scream away Miss Kiya. We love you too.
I know it is an age appropriate thing but again as adoptive parents we tend to over analyze every little thing. So we kept wondering when and if this stage would set in and were we doing something wrong. Guess not :)
So far she hasn't screamed when Dave drops her off at daycare but she really likes her daycare so that could be part of it. We anticipate at some point though that may change. She will be changing rooms sometime in the next couple of months and that may be the fuel that starts it. We put in a request for a specific room as Kiya has this teacher the first couple months she was at daycare and we really like her. We know that they can't guarantee she gets in that room but we are trying and so is the teacher. As of right now it is a no go as the room is full and the next child to age out doesn't turn 2 until April. Bummer. We know she will do fine in whatever room she goes to but still hoping for our first choice.
But for now...
She likes us. She really likes us.
3 comments:
AWESOME! That is great bonding info!!!
Ugh. I'm glad you like it. C's started 5 hours after I met her (I don't think of it as SECURE attachment, but rather the opposite) but "anxiety" was an understatement. It was more like sheer terror.
Well, enjoy :-)
I, for one, am so glad that stage is over! C stayed with babysitter for the first time today and she was great. And no crying when I drop her at daycare. I know she is securely attached now, by other behaviors.
I love reading your posts. You both seem so in-tune and collectively calm with parenthood! I learn from you experiencing each step and taking it in stride. That is the key - taking it in stride. Thank you for helping me with my stride!
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