We think that we might have an answer to Peanut's issue. Reflux. So we are coming up with a plan of action in a way.
Step 1: I have started a food journal for Peanut. I am writing down what time she is eating, what she is eating and what the level of coughing was if any and then if she spits up what time and how much (a little, a lot or vomit). So far it has only been a little and usually an 1-2 hours after she eats and it hasn't been after every feeding. We are also trying to spread out her feedings so feed her less more often.
Step 2: I am currently waiting to hear from the Feeding Clinic as they are backed up until mid July but the nurse I spoke to is trying to work something out since Peanut is young.
Step 3: I will contact the Birth to 3 program if it is determined to be a swallowing issue and not a reflux issue. They are due to present their report at the end of the month about her physical development and possible resources available.
Step 4: Stay in touch with our pediatrician who we love by the way. She is great with Peanut and is really awesome about calling and checking in and getting answers for us.
Step 5: Remain calm and trust my instincts. Peanut is doing GREAT. She is gaining weight which is awesome and she is growing developmentally more each day. Someone told me once that it is perfectly normal for adopted kids who spent months in care to be a little behind as much as a few months. We are on top of it and we can see the changes already.
Okay time to feed Peanut so wish us luck :)
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Our international pediatrician said that for every 3-4 months that a child is in an orphanage setting, that expect for them to be at least 1 month behind. So, if there for 8 months, then at least 2 months behind, etc. I hope every adoptive parent realizes this because it is very normal. The Dr. also stated that 1year with a forever family makes a HUGE difference, and that the family should expect to see a lot of change and improvement (assuming the home is loving & nurturing). So I have no doubt that Peanut is doing new things all the time and growing and developing into the beautiful and fun little girl that she is...because you and your husband are helping her thrive and grow every day. I was a food journal crazyhead with Eva when she was an infant. I wrote everything down and took my notepads with me to the doctor's office...I did this for about 3 months until she was over her stomach issues (after we tried a few different formulas), so I know how frustrating it can be to try to solve the food/digestion/eating puzzle. You are doing amazing!
Hi Cathy,
One of my grandsons had reflux and the most important thing was to keep his head elevated above his tummy after he ate. I'm sure your ped. has told you this, but just wanted to say, also, "you are doing a fantastic job with peanut".
We are enjoying Baby D., so much and I'm sure you are having your share of fun, as well.
Love, Peg (Jess Pedersen's Mom)
Go peanut! Hang in there mommy.
My Son had really BAD reflux. My tips would be to make sure your getting a really good burp and not just a tiny burp. And keep her upright for at least 30 min's after eating.
Wish you lot's of luck with figuring all of this out.
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